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Cats may be fearful of humans
First of all, it’s important to acknowledge that some cats are fearful of humans. If you bought your cat from a breeder, you should find that this is not the case. However, if you happen to have got a rescue cat or kitten, you could find that they are not used to being around people. If your kitty is a little scared of you or your family, don’t take that as a slight on you. It’s not. Instead, you should work with your feline to help them relax around you.
You have to develop a level of trust
The first thing you need to do is develop a level of trust. That means that you shouldn’t invade your cat’s space all that much. Although you might want to pick your kitty up all the time, you should not do that. Instead, put your hand out toward your cat and let them come to you. They may sniff you a whole lot first, but soon enough they will get used to you and come of their own free will.
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Use food as reinforcement
You have one major thing on your side here; food. You are the one that controls your kitty’s food, and so you can use that to your best advantage. Make sure that your cat sees you laying the food down for them. Call them when you do so to let them know as well. If they realize that you’re providing for them it will be a huge help.
Use familiar toys to play
This one can be quite tricky, but if you try hard, you can get it right. First of all, you need to buy some cat toys for your new kitty. You can’t immediately play with them, and so you should just leave the toys in their area (their basket or room!). After a few days, your cat’s natural scent will have transferred to the toy. You can then use the toy to play with your cat. The fact that the toy smells and seems familiar means that your kitty will not fear it.
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Finally, the most important thing you need to remember is that this whole process will not happen overnight. Cats can be very temperamental creatures, and so it may take your kitty a while to adjust to you. Don’t worry if that’s the case. Just keep going strong and we’re sure your cat will be happy and healthy in no time.
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Food works as a reinforcement for me, too! I imagine it’s that way with most animals.
Food works as a reinforcement for me, too! I imagine it’s that way with most animals.
I’m a cat woman without a cat. I love your advice about gaining trust. I used to leave a treat on my pillow at bedtime so my cat would climb into bed with me. I miss those times!
I’m a cat woman without a cat. I love your advice about gaining trust. I used to leave a treat on my pillow at bedtime so my cat would climb into bed with me. I miss those times!
Cat lovers would find this very useful. i love cats even though they have a reputation for being selfish.
Cat lovers would find this very useful. i love cats even though they have a reputation for being selfish.
I have no experience with cats and I always feel uncomfortable around them. These are great tips for everyone.
I just love cats! I bet it is hard to socialize a cat, but these tips would make it a little easier.
this is such a great post, I have a cat and he isn’t a fan of socializing when people come he hides and he hisses he doesn’t do anything just like this space.
To be fair, a lot of these work on me too ;). Then again I’m a little feline myself haha
I have no experience with cats and I always feel uncomfortable around them. These are great tips for everyone.
I just love cats! I bet it is hard to socialize a cat, but these tips would make it a little easier.
this is such a great post, I have a cat and he isn’t a fan of socializing when people come he hides and he hisses he doesn’t do anything just like this space.
To be fair, a lot of these work on me too ;). Then again I’m a little feline myself haha
That’s really awesome. Cats are a little more on the cautious side, not like dogs. And it takes a little time for them to get used to having you around. I agree with giving them their space, it works!
This is interesting, I do not know much about cats. We have two dogs and no cats at home, but I know a lot of people with cats. I am not sure how much thought they put into socialization for them. I will have to ask them about this.
That’s really awesome. Cats are a little more on the cautious side, not like dogs. And it takes a little time for them to get used to having you around. I agree with giving them their space, it works!
This is interesting, I do not know much about cats. We have two dogs and no cats at home, but I know a lot of people with cats. I am not sure how much thought they put into socialization for them. I will have to ask them about this.
I have 3 cats and are all so differenet. One hated socializing and is a loner.
I took in a cat once for about 2 months. To be honest I was more afraid of her than she was of me. But one day I woke up and she was asleep next to me on my bed. It was like all of a sudden she decided to be nice. I wish I could have asked her what changed.
I have 3 cats and are all so differenet. One hated socializing and is a loner.
I took in a cat once for about 2 months. To be honest I was more afraid of her than she was of me. But one day I woke up and she was asleep next to me on my bed. It was like all of a sudden she decided to be nice. I wish I could have asked her what changed.
oh my goodness, I have a friend whose cat definitely needs these tips. He’s me
oh my goodness, I have a friend whose cat definitely needs these tips. He’s me
I don’t own a cat but will share with my friends who has. Just pinned it!
great tips. my cats just seem to do hat they want when they want to.
I don’t have a cat but these are some really great tips for cat lovers
I don’t own a cat but will share with my friends who has. Just pinned it!
great tips. my cats just seem to do hat they want when they want to.
I don’t have a cat but these are some really great tips for cat lovers